Need to make them even longer then the last pic I took? Seems fine, took it for a drive... Feels great...Make the links longer... Right now as your suspension articulates it is allowing the bar end to drop - rotating down, very bad.. If the link was a little longer it would no longer be able to do that.
Ideally you are trying to get the bar ends perpendicular to the links, that will not be possible with the BMR rear bar of full stiff. But get as close as you can within the limits of the thread engagement of the adjustable link and any other obstructions.
In short, you don't want it to accidentally move to that first position when the suspension goes up and down. It will bend or break something. The end link looks too short for comfort.
On another note, a fine tuned setup will have the sway bar ends close to horizontal. If nothing is getting in the way to prevent that.
Exactly what happened here...The exact same thing happened to me! The problem was the installing the links while the car is in the air, will not let the sway bar align perpendicular with the link, then when u drop it down, it gets caught on the control arm. The key is to leave the end of the link that attaches to the sway bar unhooked until u drop the car down in order for the suspension to align itself. Then button it all up & u should be good!