Remember the talk we had in the other forum? the annoyance is there because even though the factory commands verter lockup in cruise areas, it also allows the stock verter to slip. aftermarket units are not designed to do that, is either lockup and not slip, or no lockup at all.
the TCM is trying to lockup while allowing the verter to slip, and that is what you feel at cruising speed. your verter doesn't like that.
Also, i don't know how well is your verter doing at WOT when the TCM commands lockup while allowing the verter to slip. your verter is designed to slip at WOT on its own, that's where that % efficiency comes from. so it's probabaly slipping more that what it should.
Without the new HPT tables (what they'll do with this tables is give us the chance to disable the slip, until they get released, slip is still happening), i think what your tuner will do is simply disable lockup at cruise and lockup at WOT.
Once we get access to the new tables, you can go back to the tuner, and he/she can disable the slip, and command lockup at cruise, and WOT lockup past 100mph if the verter can hold it. Don't know if your tuner would want to do so because in theory we shouldn't lock the single disk units. but that's something that you chat about between the tuner and the verter manufacturer.